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BEST MEN: THE GROOM'S MEN OF HONOR

What is its origin?

The Anglo-Saxon term "best man" literally translates into Spanish as "best man," but it actually refers to the godfather or companion of honor, a role similar to that of the bridesmaid. However, it's important to clarify that in a religious wedding, the term "padrino" refers to the bride's father, whose role is to escort her down the aisle. Therefore, "best man" has a different meaning than "sponsor."

However, they have played a significant role throughout the history of weddings, although their functions have evolved significantly over time. Before the appearance of best men, they were more commonly known as escorts or accomplices of the groom, as they often assisted the groom in tasks such as stealing the bride, as was popularly known in certain regions of Mexico.

What is its function?

While groomsmen are the male equivalent of bridesmaids and share some responsibilities, their role can be a bit more flexible in terms of what they can do. They can act as shopping companions to find your suit and attend fittings. Sometimes, you can't objectively assess how an outfit fits and need honest feedback.

Another essential task for the best men is organizing the bachelor party. They must plan an event that will make the groom happy, whether it's a traditional party with fun and drinks, or a more relaxed celebration with outdoor activities and good food.

How will we choose?

When choosing your groomsmen, follow the same rule the bride followed: choose your closest friends, those cousins ​​you consider brothers, and your blood or heart brothers. They should be men you trust completely, with whom you share fun times, and who have been by your side not only through the joys but also through the difficulties.

Are they mandatory?

At a wedding, nothing is strictly mandatory. As with everything, the choices depend entirely on the tastes and desires of the bride and groom.