THE 7 STAGES OF MARRIAGE

Every relationship goes through different stages that, far from being obstacles, become pillars that strengthen connection, trust, and mutual commitment. Here we share seven key moments that every couple experiences (or should experience) and that can make a profound difference in their love story.

1. The honeymoon: Falling in love

Right after saying "I do," one of the sweetest stages of marriage begins: the honeymoon phase. It's a period when everything feels new, exciting, and deeply romantic. With no children, no major debts, and no external pressures, this stage allows the couple to enjoy each other's company, discover each other more deeply, and experience the joy of unfiltered love. It's when details abound, patience seems endless, and every gesture is a show of affection. Although its duration varies from relationship to relationship, what is certain is that this phase lays the foundation for the bond and creates memories that will last a lifetime.

2. Stage of reality

This is where we stop idealizing our partner and begin to see them as they are, with virtues... and flaws. Differences, arguments, and moments of tension arise that invite us to grow together or rethink dynamics. It's also a phase in which many couples welcome children, which shifts priorities and demands new ways of connecting. Although it can feel challenging, this stage is key: it forces us to love with open eyes and build a relationship based on acceptance, empathy, and true commitment.

3. Accept or let go: emotional challenge

This is, without a doubt, one of the most challenging stages of marriage. When the butterflies leave and routine takes over, the flaws we previously ignored begin to weigh heavily. Small differences become arguments, and the famous "seven-year itch" ceases to sound like a myth. This is where many couples wonder if the person they have at their side is really the same person they fell in love with. But if you decide to stay, speak honestly, ask for forgiveness, and look with empathy, this stage can be the beginning of a more mature and conscious love.

4. Building as a team

After weathering the emotional storms, a calm phase arrives. They've learned to respect their differences, listen to each other without judgment, and make decisions as a team. It's no longer about changing each other, but about complementing each other. It's time to raise children, plan long-term goals, or even start a business together. The relationship becomes more mature, based on real agreements, mutual respect, and a shared vision of the future.

5. External crises

At this stage, the relationship faces external challenges that cannot always be avoided. Illness, loss, unemployment, or unexpected moves are some of the situations that can disrupt the emotional and financial stability of the couple. Here, more than ever, communication, empathy, and teamwork become essential. Facing these crises together can strengthen the bond. The key is to support each other, adapt to change, and remember that you are on the same team.

6. Empty nest

This stage is especially relevant for couples who have decided to have children. When children leave home, routines change completely, and many couples face the well-known "empty nest syndrome." This stage can feel like a loss, especially if all the energy in the home revolved around the children. However, it's also a unique opportunity to reconnect with your partner, rediscover shared interests, and strengthen your relationship. It's the perfect time to go out on dates again, plan trips together, or simply enjoy the peace and quiet and each other's company.

7. When love transcends

After years of sharing life and overcoming challenges together, many couples reach a stage of deep emotional and spiritual connection. It is a peaceful love, unhurried and unpredictable, where intimacy is lived naturally and differences are accepted with respect. At this stage, the couple is together not out of routine, but by choice. They enjoy silence, celebrate memories, and value, more than ever, the simple presence of each other.