Red flags from your friends when you get married.
Friends are the family we don't choose. We keep them close, we tell them our problems, they're there for each other through thick and thin. However, that doesn't make them perfect. It used to be very common to make all kinds of jokes or to avoid at all costs the possibility of one of your friends getting married. Times have changed, and so have men's mentalities, but that doesn't mean some still think the way they did in the past. In today's blog, we'll examine what types of behaviors can indicate red flags in your friends.
It's a trap:
If your friends see marriage as a death trap from which there's no escape and that your future wife will be the jailer, be careful. If you're already planning to marry your girlfriend, chances are your family and friends have known her for a long time.
They may even be friends. If they address her like that now, be careful how they will act once she's your wife. Maybe the teasing is already getting to you now; stop it, or it will only get worse during the marriage. It could end up affecting him too. If your wife is bothered by these "little jokes" and sees you not doing anything about it, it could cause problems.
The worst mistake of your life:
A very common and very hurtful phrase. On your special day, I highly doubt you'd want to share it with people who address you that way. It's supposed to be the happiest day of your life, not the worst mistake.
People may be for or against getting married, but there's a big difference between that and constantly telling you how you're going to destroy your relationship and make the worst mistake of your life.
Apron:
Something very popular to say before.
Some see marriage as a woman's whim, a feminine dream that every girl dreams of fulfilling one day, and by fulfilling it, you are fulfilling that desire.
Number 1, there's nothing wrong with fulfilling the desires of your loved ones if they're within your reach and don't affect others. Number 2, it's a very sexist idea to think that women have that sole desire and that it's their sole goal in life. And finally, number 3, marriage isn't a whim.
Marriage is the consummation of a relationship that is ready to be taken to the next level, where two people want to come together to make a life together.
We hope your friends don't have any of these red flags, especially we hope they don't have all 3 together or some others that are out there and that we omitted on this occasion.
Choose your friends carefully, surround yourself with positive people who leave you with something good instead of negative vibes.
It's a trap:
If your friends see marriage as a death trap from which there's no escape and that your future wife will be the jailer, be careful. If you're already planning to marry your girlfriend, chances are your family and friends have known her for a long time.
They may even be friends. If they address her like that now, be careful how they will act once she's your wife. Maybe the teasing is already getting to you now; stop it, or it will only get worse during the marriage. It could end up affecting him too. If your wife is bothered by these "little jokes" and sees you not doing anything about it, it could cause problems.
The worst mistake of your life:
A very common and very hurtful phrase. On your special day, I highly doubt you'd want to share it with people who address you that way. It's supposed to be the happiest day of your life, not the worst mistake.
People may be for or against getting married, but there's a big difference between that and constantly telling you how you're going to destroy your relationship and make the worst mistake of your life.
Apron:
Something very popular to say before.
Some see marriage as a woman's whim, a feminine dream that every girl dreams of fulfilling one day, and by fulfilling it, you are fulfilling that desire.
Number 1, there's nothing wrong with fulfilling the desires of your loved ones if they're within your reach and don't affect others. Number 2, it's a very sexist idea to think that women have that sole desire and that it's their sole goal in life. And finally, number 3, marriage isn't a whim.
Marriage is the consummation of a relationship that is ready to be taken to the next level, where two people want to come together to make a life together.
We hope your friends don't have any of these red flags, especially we hope they don't have all 3 together or some others that are out there and that we omitted on this occasion.
Choose your friends carefully, surround yourself with positive people who leave you with something good instead of negative vibes.
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